Nowadays, the farz of marriage is most expensive and out of reach of poor parents. As long as the money for the expensive hall is not collected, the house cannot afford to provide everything needed, the clothes of the in-laws or lakhs of rupees to give as dowry, the parents are only afraid and worried about the name of marriage. How to accumulate so much wealth whether it is a girl or a boy is just afraid of dowry and expenses.
But actress Yasra Rizvi’s marriage is beyond all these fears. Her marriage is a wonderful example for the Pakistani society, with no worries about dowry and no dowry of millions, which was the simplest marriage and till date hardly any actress has done it like this.
The most beautiful part of their marriage is their right of dowry, which was inspired by the right of dowry of Umm Salim bint Malhan, who was the mother of Sahabi Anas bin Malik. The actress asked for Fajr from her husband as her dowry and her husband agreed to it in front of everyone. Another thing that gave the most positive message about their marriage was that the wife was older than the husband, whereas nowadays people don’t stop talking if the girl is older than the boy.
The way Yasra got married and proved herself not only to be a good wife, a good actress, a good mother and an excellent member of the society, we find very few such examples around us. If we pay attention to our personal life and consider how many poor parents are worried because of expensive marriages of lakhs of rupees, thousands of young girls are sitting at home, how many boys are worried because of the requirement of high dowry. Yes, girls are getting older and parents are getting worried. Everywhere there is an age of egoism. Some are worried about their daughter’s marriage, while some are concerned about building a house for their son.
In these situations, girls should also think that if they are getting you married, don’t put your unnecessary needs in front of them, don’t ask them to do very expensive ceremonies, simply like others and don’t get married in a mosque. Try to generalize the custom because there is as much peace in the house of God as there is in something far away.
Today they are going to be married for 5 years and now they have a son and they are living a happy life together.
